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The Best Way to Go About Pursuing Goals

May
04
2010

by Sibyl · 4 comments

Whenever people want to accomplish anything, a strategy that is often utilized involves setting goals and then envisioning them becoming a reality.  In fact, there are a multitude of people and experts that recommend this strategy and encourage you to envision yourself successfully accomplishing your goals in the future if you really want to achieve them. Consequently, many people spend a lot of time looking forward to the future and imagining how great it will be once their vision becomes their reality.  They feel that life will be so much better and they spend a significant amount of time fantasizing about tomorrow.

However…there is something very important we should also be focusing on…an alternaview that should be noticed.

Achieve your Goals: The alternaview

While it is by all means important to envision yourself successfully accomplishing your goals in the future, it is equally important that you enjoy and appreciate where you currently are and what you are currently experiencing and doing.

Yes, you have to set goals, create a plan and envision success.  However, what you are aiming to achieve should never be more important to you than what you are currently doing and how you are going about doing it.  One of the best things you can focus on is completely enjoying exactly where you are and pouring your passion and positive energy into the current step you are completing. Appreciate and enjoy whatever it is you are doing today.

Why?

Because how we are experiencing the current moment and how we are doing the things that are right in front of us really matters. The more we are enjoying ourselves and really putting everything we have into the current moment, the more successful we will be and the more progress we will make in the long run.

It is an easy trap to fall into solely focusing on tomorrow and successfully achieving your goals. Perhaps you don’t like where you currently are or perhaps you are using your hope for success in the future as a reason to push harder and do more today.  Whatever the case may be, there are many reasons why people spend so much time focusing on tomorrow.

There is nothing wrong with envisioning success, but the key is that you can’t let yourself become so preoccupied with where you are going, that you are not totally into what you are currently doing now.

You have to learn to appreciate the current moment and the current step you are taking and realize that although you are interested in successfully accomplishing your goal in the future, there is nothing that is more important than the current step you are taking.

This is the way to set yourself up for success because you will be devoted and appreciate what is currently in front of you. You will enjoy the moment in time you are experiencing and what it is you are currently doing.  And, the greatest thing is that success in the future will naturally flow from that.

How to use this alternaview:

  1. Appreciate the current step you are on. Although you see the bigger picture and ultimately where you want to go, you recognize and appreciate the importance of being exactly where you are and doing exactly what it is you are doing.
  2. Enjoy this moment in time and focus on living it well and learning all you can from it.
  3. Pour your passion into what you are doing.
  4. Have fun with what you are doing.
  5. Be patient and content. Don’t think you need to be moving quicker or accomplishing more.  Be patient and content and allow things to unfold the way they should.

Don’t allow your mind to get ahead of where you are and what you currently are doing.  Yes, you should envision what success will look like, but you can’t get so attached to your picture of success that you aren’t paying enough attention and enjoying the current step you are taking.  Don’t’ be so preoccupied with tomorrow and where you ultimately want to go, that you aren’t currently doing what you should to really experience and enjoy today…that is the alternaview.

Do you agree with this alternaview? Are you enjoying where you currently are and what you currently are doing?

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Steven Aitchison May 4, 2010 at 6:58 am

Hi Sibyl

Great message here about being in the moment and ‘the power of now’. I sometimes think too much about the future and it’s always good to get grounded again.
.-= Steven Aitchison´s last blog ..Is The Lefkoe Belief Process a Fraud =-.

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Sibyl May 6, 2010 at 3:07 am

Steve: Thanks for the comment. I also am working on staying in the now and not focusing too much about the future. Focusing on the future has always filled my need to feel that I am being responsible and planning ahead, but you are so right that we need to ground ourself from time to time and pay attention to what is currently in front of us. Thanks again for the comment. Sibyl

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Annie Stith (@Gr8fulAnnie) May 6, 2010 at 9:45 am

Hey, Sibyl!

I just finished a “Virtual Retreat” involving Zen, and you are SO there! One of the things I’ve come to believe is that it’s amazing what I can experience when I put my full attention on what it is I’m doing in the moment. It may sound silly, for example, to so intensely focus on eating a meal, but the tastes and textures come alive when I do. The same thing goes for following my passion. I can celebrate each small victory, like finishing my landing page for my upcoming blog, because I’m *in* the moment when it happens instead of focusing on what’s not yet here.

Good post!

Annie

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Sibyl May 9, 2010 at 4:51 pm

Annie: Thank you so much for the comment and welcome to the alternaview. I really liked what you said about being in the moment and the examples that you gave. It is really both the little things and the small ones that change for us in such a positive way when we live in the moment. The way we experience everything changes for the better…even the meals we eat (just like you said). Thanks again for the comment and welcome again to the alternaview. Looking forward to your upcoming blog. Keep me posted. Sibyl

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