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10 Things You Can Do Right Now To Instantly Improve Your Life

Aug
24
2010

by Sibyl · 48 comments

Everyone wants to improve the way they live.

There is nothing better than looking back on life and realizing it is improving every single day.  How great is it to know that you are getting better and better at living?

Now we all know there are usually not instant fixes when it comes to improving things in life.  If you want to improve your skills, your job, your appearance or any other aspect of your life, often times that means you have to commit to changing things and then be disciplined enough to consistently take one step at a time until you reach your goal.

However, what if there were things we could immediately start doing that would have such a positive impact on our life and how we live, that life would instantly improve?

We literally could just incorporate certain things into our days and immediately our life would get better.

Now, I am not claiming to have a magic list that will change your life overnight, but I do think there are certain things you can do that will really allow you to live everyday better and ultimately improve your life.

These things are like little doses of positive energy, and the more of them you do, the more your life opens up and things just begin to fall into place.

They bring the right type of energy to your days and align things so that your life overall just improves.

This list is by no means exhaustive, but these are some of the best things you can do immediately … or continue to do if they are already a part of your day.

10 Things You Can Do Right Now To Instantly Improve Your life:

1. Stop Complaining. It is amazing how much negative energy complaining injects into our day.  Often times we don’t even realize the negative impact that complaining really does have on our day and how we are experiencing it.  We think we are venting and getting things off our chest, but when we complain we really are diminishing our own positive energy, even if we are complaining about someone else.  Choose to stop complaining immediately and be conscious of anytime you begin to complain. Stop yourself as soon as you realize you are complaining about any situation or any person.  Refuse to fall into the trap of complaining.

2. Start looking for what is great. So often we go through our days noticing everything that is wrong.  It’s raining, it’s cold, your job doesn’t pay enough, your co-worker is driving you crazy, your neighbor is playing their music too loud, etc.  The list goes on and on.  Instead of focusing your attention on what is irritating  and annoying, choose to notice what you do like and what is going great. As you go through your day, change your focus from what is not working, to what is working.  You will be amazed at how much better it will make you feel as you go through the day.

3. Start focusing on people’s strengths. It literally is possible to find something that you don’t appreciate about someone else all the time. People’s idiosyncrasies seem to stick out and their weaknesses  are usually easier to notice than their strengths. However, if you choose to focus on people’s strengths and the good qualities they have, you will allow yourself to see people in a different and improved light. This will make all your experiences with them much more pleasant.

4. Find at least 10 things to smile about everyday. There are always things to smile about throughout the day. The problem is that we usually are so burdened by the things that are dissatisfying, that we miss out on many of our opportunities to smile and have fun.  Focus on smiling and laughing as you go through your day.

5. Have as many relaxing and silent moments as possible. Relaxation and silence are both key to improving your life. Take every opportunity you can to enjoy relaxing and silence. Turn the radio off in the car for your morning commute, and enjoy your silence and relaxation time in your morning shower. The key is to take advantage of anytime where you are alone and can just relax.

6. Don’t eat food too late in the day. Aim to eat a large lunch and a light dinner and to not eat anything after 8 pm. Cut out the midnight snacks and focus on eating vegetables and other light meals at dinner.  When you eat a large lunch and give your body time to digest your food as you go throughout your day, you will really feel a lot better and be more energized.

7. Exercise. Gotta do it … so find some type of exercise that you like.  Just about anything counts as long as you find some way to consistently be active and get in a good workout.

8. Drink lots of water. There is just something about drinking water that puts everything into balance.  Try to substitute water for soda, iced tea, juice or anything else that you usually drink.  It doesn’t mean that all you can drink is water, but the more water you drink, the better.

9. Love whatever you can. As cliche as it may sound, love really does make the world go round.  Focus on the things and people in your life that you love. Anytime you feel yourself getting worked up, remind yourself of the things and people you love. It will always get you into a better frame of mind.

10. Really experience and enjoy as many moments as possible. Don’t just go through your day on autopilot.  Really experience and enjoy what you are doing and all the experiences you are having. Find a way to pour as much passion and energy to as many moments as possible.

If you aren’t doing all of these things everyday, why not try them out? You have nothing to lose and you will be absolutely amazed at the positive impact they will have on your life.

Live Today Better than Yesterday
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KELiCHiA August 24, 2010 at 6:26 am

Lovely article. Enjoyed it!

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:03 pm

Thanks Kelichia for the kind words. I am so glad you enjoyed the post and stopped by the alternaview.

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Sumant Kerur July 3, 2011 at 6:26 pm

Hello Sibyl,

Thanks for this wonderful article. These are those things which everyone knows however hardly we notice them.

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Sibyl July 6, 2011 at 5:43 am

Thanks Sumant for the comment and stopping by. I appreciate it and am glad that you liked the article.

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Marko -- Calm Growth August 24, 2010 at 3:44 pm

Excellent idea for a blog post. The lesson is clear – no more excuses, and no more “tomorrow I will improve my life.” Focus on improving the quality of your present reality, not on improving “someday.” Because, there is no someday.

That day may never come… So, act now and grow beyond measure. Great tips Sibyl!

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Sibyl August 24, 2010 at 7:56 pm

Thanks Marko. Glad you liked this one and you hit the nail on the head. It is time to move now and not let another minute just pass you by. I think when we take advantage of our opportunity to really seize the day we can make changes that will get us to where we want to me. You are so right that there is just no more time for excuses. Sometimes you really just have to live in the moment in the best ways you can. Thanks so much for the comment. I really appreciate it.

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occasionallyserene August 24, 2010 at 4:53 pm

Sibyl,
This is wonderful. I would add # 11 it is important and applies to each of the excellent suggestions you have put together – JUST DO IT!. So often it is just inertia that keeps us from getting started. Your prescription, if take daily, will result in a happier person. Great recipe for success, now if you could just bottle that formula.
Cheers

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Sibyl August 24, 2010 at 7:54 pm

Occasionally serene: Thanks so much for the comment and I totally agree … Just do it is a great addition. It is too easy to get stuck and not move, but if we are committed to always just doing it, we can be certain we will keep things moving forward. Great suggestion and addition. Thanks so much for the comment. I really appreciate it.

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jonathanfigaro August 24, 2010 at 11:23 pm

If you concentrate on what is good or great in your life. Life can only continue to get good and great fro you. Do the opposite and you’ll be in mental agony. It’s best to focus on the good in life. Like James dean says” Live like there no tomorrow and dream like you would live forever”…I may be wrong, but it’s something to that extent. The point is. Live life, love her and take her for a ride of passion and lust when you have th chance. Bite her and I bet she’ll bite back!

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:06 pm

Jonathan: Thanks for the comment and I love your recommendation to live life, love her and take her for a ride of passion … what a great perspective and approach. It is so true that we have to look at things that happen in life in the right way. When we are consistently able to see things in the best life, everything just simply improves. Thanks again for the comment. I appreciate it.

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Marion Anderson August 25, 2010 at 4:43 am

Hi Sibyl

My favorites from this are stop complaining and stop living life on auto pilot. When you stop complaining your focus moves from “poor me” to “responsible me” and we can start to alter what we would normally just complain about.

Great post.

Thank you

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:07 pm

Marion: Thanks so much for the comment and I am glad that you liked the post. After reading your post, I am thinking I should have added forgiveness to the list :) Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate it.

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Anita August 25, 2010 at 9:52 am

Great list Sibyl – my favorite “7. Exercise” :) – haha. Also “9. Love whatever you can.” This one may sound a bit cheesy (sorry) and it may be obvious, but it is a stealth weapon for improving your day.

I would recomend it to anyone – just test it one day! But you have to really FEEL the love, not just to think it. It changes your worldview and your point of reference to anything that happens in the day.

Thanks Sibyl – I really enjyed this list.

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:10 pm

Anita: I thought you might appreciate the exercise pointer. I should have pointed people to your site so they really can learn how to exercise in the best ways :) I think that addition you suggested is a good one and people really do have to feel the love, not just think it or say it. It needs to come from a deep and sincere place to really have an impact on our lives. Thanks for the comment. I really appreciate it.

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Hilary August 25, 2010 at 11:38 am

Hi Sibyl .. how true .. Negative energy is useless isn’t it!? Giving a smile here and there can be such an enlightener to those around you .. making others happy too … giving back and not taking .. exercise yes and lots of water .. being quiet and at peace .. eat less .. and just love life and as you say just really experience and enjoy each and every moment .. Thanks – so right! Hilary

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:12 pm

Hilary: I couldn’t agree more … negative energy really gets you nowhere and once you realize that you are doing things that are attracting negative energy, you really do have to commit to doing things differently. Thanks so much for the comment. Much appreciated.

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Dia August 25, 2010 at 3:23 pm

Hi Sibyl,

I love the 10 points your have listed, especially number 1. We can complain all day about life, work, but that is not going to change anything. Instead of complaining, we should be focusing on our goals and what can benefit us. Also, in regards to number 4 similing, there is really nothing better than smiling, it just takes the stress away. Thanks for sharing

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:15 pm

Dia: Thanks so much for the comment. It really is easy to fall into the trap of complaining and I think that is why we have to be conscientious of our perspectives and what we are saying. I am glad that you appreciated the list. Thanks again for the comment.

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Preeti @ Heart and Mind August 25, 2010 at 5:13 pm

Sibyl,

Good to read your post again! I love this articles and loved every single of tips you suggested. Specially, stop complaining and start seeing what is great in our life already!

Many times, all we see is what is not right and what is wrong and our focus becomes all on negativity instead. Being positive always helps! Thank you for the wisdom and tips here.

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:24 pm

Preeti: Thanks so much for the comment and stopping by the alternaview. I am glad that you appreciated the list and I agree with you that it is easy to fall into the trap of seeing things from the wrong perspective and becoming focused on too much negativity. I do think this is something we have to always be on guard for. I also agree with you that being positive and looking at things from the right angle helps. Thanks again for the comment.

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Rocky | R O C K O N O V A . COM August 25, 2010 at 7:58 pm

water! ha I try to drink it as much as I can. either that or orange juice. and yes we really do have to consciously choose things that we love and can smile about. It just makes everything so much better.

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:26 pm

Rocky: Thanks for the comment. I don’t know that orange juice really counts :) It is good though. I think you are right that we have to consciously choose to notice things we can smile about and when our focus is on those things, the way we experience life is so much better. Thanks so much for the comment. I really appreciate it.

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Farnoosh August 25, 2010 at 9:00 pm

Sibyl, you are so forward, so honest, so candid, and without any fluff – I LOVE IT! I love how you tell us to stop complaining (yes I do sometimes but only to the hubby not to bring anyone’s mood down!!!) and to get exercise (that I do in loads lately with cycling and you are SO right!) We need to get that heart rate up few times a week and keep it up there and train our bodies to face the coming years and decades with strength and stamina. Great post on keeping us on our toes but happy and healthy, dear Sibyl! Keep them coming, we can’t have too much of this goodness!

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Sibyl August 25, 2010 at 9:29 pm

Farnoosh: Thank you so much for the kind words. I really appreciate it. I am glad that you liked this post and the list. I do think it is important from time to time to be reminded of the things we should be doing every day and keep our focus on certain things. I am glad that you agree. Thanks for stopping by the alternaview.

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fatima da August 26, 2010 at 12:38 am

Thanks for your great tips Sibyl to ‘the alternative’…. love each point particularly #2 to me, it says what we focus on manifests……to what benefit is it to us focusing on what int working? Thanks once again for sharing these great points .

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Roman Soluk August 26, 2010 at 1:52 am

Hi Sibyl! Very nice words, especially I like the first point. Complaining is nothing good, it always shows our weakness and don’t let us to achieve our goals.

Nice, thanks!

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Jk hustle August 27, 2010 at 3:57 pm

Sibyl, #’s 2 and 9 stick out to me a lot. In order to find peace with yourself, you have to find it others and other things. There’s so much power trapped into Looking For What is Great and Loving Whatever you Can. Positive energy promotes positive results.

…and #1 – we can all use a dose of “be thankful for what you have, and stop complaining about what you don’t have.”…at least I know I can use it!

Your ability to articulate your view of things is excellent.

Thank you

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Sibyl August 30, 2010 at 6:28 am

JK Hustle: Thanks so much for the comments you have left and welcome to the alternaview. It is great to have you here and I really appreciate you sharing your comments and thoughts. I totally agree with you that there is so much power in looking for what is great and loving whatever you can. Things and people just open up for you to experience them in the best way when that is your focus. Thanks again for the comment and stopping by the alternaview.

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J.D. Meier August 29, 2010 at 10:27 pm

Focusing on people’s strengths is how I became a kid in a candy store. I learn from everyone I can, and by focusing on their strengths, it brings out the best in them.

In terms of loving what you can, lately I’ve been loving nachos.

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Sibyl August 30, 2010 at 6:13 am

J.D. There are not many things better than a good plate of nachos :) The cheese has to be just right though. Thanks so much for the comment. I think it can really change your perception and experience with other people when you focus on their strengths. A new dimension of who they are opens up for you to see and allows you to really relate and work with them in a genuine way. You can see them for who they really are and that is what it is all about. Thanks again for the comment.

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Ben Tien September 15, 2010 at 10:43 pm

Hi Sibyl,

You have put the “Stop Complaining” at the right place, the first one! I don’t understand when people start to complain. Most people always complaining something, why they don’t store their energy and use it to make it better.

Even sometimes, I always complain, I realize that complain won’t change anything, so I’ll stop complain and do the work better!

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Henway December 7, 2010 at 2:06 pm

Completely agree with the tip about finding moments to remain silent and still. I also think we’re happy when we’re living out of our heads.. and not thinking about the future, past, or where we rather be. When we’re engaged in the present moment, and loving what is, happiness arises naturally.

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rob white March 31, 2011 at 7:26 am

Great list Sibyl. You could probably have stopped at #1 and provided most folks enough food for thought for year! :) . If you want to experience something fresh and good about yourself, you must do something fresh and good for yourself … stop complaining and start appreciating! This alone will cause a noticeable shift in attitude and mood in our daily affairs. There’s reality and there’s illusion. As long as we entertain feelings of WOE, we hypnotically rely on the Counterfeit-Self to react to life for us … and you experience illusion. Keep your focus single to the truth about your original nature, and you experience reality; you stop giving power to that which has no real existence at all. It’s a beautiful feeling – no more straining to live joyously and freely.

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Sibyl March 31, 2011 at 8:27 pm

Rob: Thanks so much for the comment and sharing all of your wisdom. I don’t think you could have said it any better … stop complaining and start appreciating. We really can drag ourselves down if we wallow in thoughts that are negative. Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting. Much appreciated.

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chinasa April 9, 2011 at 4:22 pm

Thanks a lot for the blog. It was so good I had to tweet some of them I hope u don`t mind.

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Sibyl April 12, 2011 at 10:45 pm

Chinasa: Thank you. I definitely don’t mind. I am glad that you thought they were of the caliber to retweet :) Thanks for stopping by.

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farouk July 3, 2011 at 9:55 am

i like the idea of the post Sibyl :)
its all about small changes that can have a great impact because of their accumulated effect
thank you:)

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Sibyl July 3, 2011 at 2:38 pm

So true Farouk. Glad that you liked it. Thanks for stopping by.

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Sarah August 9, 2011 at 9:48 am

This is great stuff!

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Sibyl August 9, 2011 at 6:58 pm

Thanks Sarah. So glad that you like the website. I appreciate the feedback.

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julie August 12, 2011 at 2:07 pm

What a beautiful site that I just came across, I think you are a very speaical women. Your parents and loved ones must be so proud.
Blessings to you pretty girl.
Julie Kelly

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Sibyl August 12, 2011 at 10:04 pm

Thanks Julie for the super kind words. That is so nice of you. I am so glad that you like the site and hope you will be dropping by again soon :)

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Debbie October 5, 2011 at 8:46 pm

I happen to run across your website today. It was exactly what I needed. I really want to try this and share it with all the people in my life. I have definitely found a kindred spirit.

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Sibyl October 7, 2011 at 8:21 pm

So glad you came across it Debbie and hope you will come back to visit again. Thanks for the kind words;)

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Giles December 15, 2011 at 12:56 pm

This, I believe, is a simple way to explain how best life can be lived. Thanks for sharing this.

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Sibyl December 20, 2011 at 2:30 pm

Hey Giles: You are very welcome. Thanks so much for the comment and dropping by. I really appreciate it:)

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