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One Important Thing You Always Want to Keep Top of Mind

If you haven’t reached the “great part” yet of any experience, then that just means it’s not the end of the story. There are more positive things coming. There is always a good ending you can count on.

Have you ever thought about the fact that everything always ends in a good way?

I was looking back on every one of my experiences, and I realized that regardless of what the experience was or even how tough it was for me to get through it, once I got to very end of the experience, there was always something good waiting for me at the end.

I just needed to open my eyes a little more so I could see it. Because at times “the good” was difficult to see — especially after those experiences where I had been through so much and felt like the walls were tumbling down.

But, in hindsight, I can honestly say that each and every time there was a good ending to the story.

The good really is always there at the end. It may be something you can actually see and touch or it may be something more intangible like a valuable lesson you needed to learn in order to set you up for success in the future. Whatever the case may be, it’s there and if you look hard enough you can always reach the “If that hadn’t happened” realization.

If I hadn’t lost that job, then I would have never been free to follow my passion and find the job I always wanted.

If I hadn’t gone through that terrible situation, then I wouldn’t have realized just how strong I really am.

If I hadn’t had that experience, then I wouldn’t have known how to really have a great relationship.

If I hadn’t failed, then I would have never realized what I really needed to do in order to succeed.

No matter what the situation is, you can always count on reaching the “proverbial pot of gold” at the end of the rainbow.

Keep The Good Ending Top Of Mind

What I finally realized was that we’ve got to always keep it top of mind that there are no exceptions and the story will always end in a great way. Because, let’s be real, life is not always a cakewalk. It’s filled with challenges, no matter which direction we look and if we let them, the challenges can overshadow our confidence in the fact that everything really will unfold perfectly.

But, the truth and one thing we can always count on is that even though the stories may have low points, disappointments, failures and challenges; the endings will always be great.

And, if you haven’t reached the “great part” yet, then that just means it’s not the end of the story. There are more things that will happen. There are more positive things coming your way. There is absolutely a good ending you can count on.

The Possibility of Today

1. Remind Yourself There’s Always A Good Ending. When we are managing through a situation, it’s easy to fall into the trap of letting the doubts overshadow everything else. Every time a doubt surfaces in your mind, you’ve got to create the habit of completing the story and not ending on a negative thought. Remind yourself that all stories end on a good note and this one will be no different. Remember, there are no exceptions. If you haven’t reached your good ending, the story isn’t over. Let that always be the final thought you have about the situation and eventually it will overshadow your doubts.

2. Don’t get stuck in a holding pattern. You’ve got to take steps forward toward your “good ending”. Don’t get sucked into the situation and let your doubts or concerns weigh you down. You’ve got to keep your head up and move forward step by step regardless of what is happening around you. Let your confidence that the story will end in a good way motivate you to continue taking steps forward until you reach the light at the end of the tunnel. It’s like that quote by Paulo Coelho reminds us,

“If you only walk on sunny days, you’ll never reach your destination.” 

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