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A Quick But Important Reminder For Today

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I love these words of wisdom from the Dalai Lama. It’s definitely something important to remind yourself of today, especially if you have a lot to handle or you’re managing through any problems. It reminds me of another great quote by Joyce Meyer…

“Being negative only makes a difficult journey more difficult.”

Have a great day. Don’t forget to take some moments today to get your good energy flowing. What can you do to boost your mood? Take a quick break and go for a 5 minute walk, listen to your favorite upbeat song, or do something else you love doing.

Treat yourself to a boost of good energy. You’ll feel good and be better able to handle whatever you need to today.

xoxo,
Sibyl

Do You Have The Right Friends?

 

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People say it all the time … be careful about who you spend your time with. I think it’s important from time to time to remind yourself of this and then make thoughtful choices about the friendships in your life and who you’re spending a lot of your time with.

This is something I’ve had to do at different times in my life and I can’t say it’s always easy to do. You get comfortable and you’re used to being around certain people.

But, you can love people from a distance and wish them the best. They don’t have to be a part of your everyday life.

As I look back on all the friendships and relationships I’ve had (the good ones and the not so healthy ones), every time I was surrounded by the right people, I was also making better decisions about my own life. It wasn’t that these friendships were problem free, but there was a certain ease, sense of enjoyment and I was learning important things about myself.

There’s just something to be said about spending your time with people who share the same commitment you have to live life in the best way and are actually taking action every day to make that happen.

Live Today Better Than Yesterday.

Stressed or Overwhelmed: One Important Thing To Do Today

Lifeis101200628“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” ~Charles Swindoll

You know those times when you’ve been pushing and pushing for what feels like a very long time?

You’ve been handling a lot—taking care of problems, searching for answers, and trying your best to not feel stressed or overwhelmed. Maybe today is one of those times when so much is going on in your life. I know it is for me.

Well, if you’re like me, there are still more things you need to work through and a lot that still needs to fall in place before you can let out a sigh of a relief.

So, how do you keep going? This is what I asked myself: What’s the best way to find the strength to push forward?

I had the most interesting experience the other day that gave me the perfect answer. I was reminded me of one very important thing that immediately helped me see things in a better light. If you’ve also had a lot you’ve been pushing through, I think you’ll really appreciate this message I received while on a plane ride. [Read more…]

How To Overcome Doubts That Work Against You

Everythingyouneed“There is a difference between wishing for a thing and being ready to receive it. No one is ready for a thing until they believe they can acquire it. The state of mind must be belief, not mere hope or wish.” – Napoleon Hill

Do you want to know something that finally dawned on me? You can overcome doubts by realizing that you don’t need to know “how” things will fall into place. In fact, we are supposed to trust and completely believe that everything will work out, even if we can’t see “how”.

There’s a big difference between “hoping for the best” and actually trusting and believing things will work out perfectly.

You hear people express doubt all the time …

“I have doubts, but I am hoping for the best.”
“Only time will tell, but I am giving it everything I have and staying positive.”

That used to be the way I thought about things too.

I needed some kind of proof before I could completely believe in something and feel like I could actually get my hopes up. Sure, staying positive and having hope is great, but strengthening our belief and trusting that everything will unfold perfectly is so much better.

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5 Simple But Powerful Thoughts To Have Today

Ifwearefacing“If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking.” Buddhist Proverb

You know those times when you’re waiting on something you really want to happen? You’ve been doing your best to figure things out and push forward day after day, but you’re still waiting on things to completely smooth out and finally fall into place. Actually, maybe today is one of those times? I know it is for me. For what feels like a very long time, I’ve been working and waiting for certain things to fall into place in my life and with my work.

Well, something important dawned on me the other day about these times. Actually, one of my favorite quotes of all time popped into my mind. It’s a great Truth to remember when you’re doing everything you can, but you’re still waiting on things to fall into place.

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” Martin Luther King, Jr.

Of course, we’ve heard over and over again the importance of continuing to believe and hope. That’s not really anything new. But, what struck me was something else and so I reminded myself…

You’ve got to surrender while you also keep holding onto what you want and hoping. [Read more…]

How You Continue Taking Steps Forward Day After Day

“Seasons of waiting are designed to prepare you, stretch your faith, and get you ready for everything that’s coming next.” -Mandy Hale

Have you been hoping and waiting for certain things in your life to fall into place? I know I have. Do you also feel like it has been a very long time and a very long road?

Of course, everything we’ve gone through has been an important part of our journey. And yes, it’s all happened for a very good reason. We can and should have faith in that Truth. It’s like that great quote by Satchidananda reminds us:

“Though we can’t always see it at the time, things always happen for our best interests. We are always being guided in a way better than we know ourselves.” 

But, have you noticed how feeling at peace while you’re waiting on things to fall into place isn’t the easiest thing to do? You’re doing your best to faithfully take steps forward but then new problems come up or the same old problems linger. You may even still have some doubts about if or when things will finally come together.

Well, here’s the good news… [Read more…]

One Powerful Quote To Remind Yourself Of Today

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“About 90% of the things in your life are right. Make sure you don’t overlook the 90% that’s right because you’re focusing on the 10% that’s not.” – Dale Carnegie

Isn’t that a great quote? It’s actually one of my favorite quotes of all time. And, Today, if you’re like me, and also have a lot going on, this is a great quote to remember.

Take a quick minute and think about it…

Even if everything isn’t 100% perfect today, when you’re honest with yourself and you look at things from the right perspective, you can see that at least 90% of the things in your life are working and going right. That’s right, 90%.

And, 90% is a lot going right.

But, have you noticed how your mind will try to focus mostly on what’s wrong or the 10% that’s not working? It’s like all the bad stuff comes to mind quickly and sticks around, but it’s not as easy to remember and stay focused on all the good stuff that’s going well.

This was the exact problem I ran into earlier today. [Read more…]

5 Simple But Powerful Thoughts To Have Today

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“You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be.” Marianne Williamson

I’ll admit it. I was a bit naive.

I used to think the day was going to come when that negative voice in my mind would be gone once and for all. You know the voice that’s notorious for focusing on all the wrong things.

It continually tries to get you to worry about one thing or another. I call it the Chief Negativity Officer and its always quick to respond anytime something goes wrong or you have any doubts.

It says all types of things …

” Things aren’t ever going to work out.”
” Don’t get your hopes up. Every time you do that you just end up being disappointed again.”
” You’re never going to get where you want to be.”
“What are you going to do when things don’t work out?” (and so many other negative thoughts)

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33 Excuses You Want to Avoid Making In 2015

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Happy New Year. We have officially made it through 2014. Was last year as crazy of a year for you as it was for me? It was filled with challenging times, good times, ups, downs and so many curve balls. But, that’s the way life goes, isn’t it?

We go through it all. The experiences we have stretch us and make us dig deep into our inner strength. However, when you step back and look at things from the right perspective, you can see that even though certain times may have been really tough, you have been strengthened and prepared to live even better moving forward. It’s like that great quote by Rikki Rogers explains,

“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.” [Read more…]

You Don’t Have To Wait Any Longer For What You Want: It’s Time

Seasonsofwaitingare61“Seasons of waiting are designed to prepare you, stretch your faith, and get you ready for everything that’s coming next.” -Mandy Hale

Have you been waiting on something to show up in your life for awhile? Maybe you’ve been working to accomplish something and you’re so ready for things to fall into place. Or, maybe you’ve been working through problem after problem and you really want things to finally work out.

Many of us (myself definitely included) have been managing through a “season of waiting”. Do you feel like it’s been a long road? I know I do. Of course it’s been worthwhile and an important part of our journey. I get that and I definitely appreciate the fact that everything really does happen for a reason.

But, my oh my! … it’s been a wild ride hasn’t it?

There have been the “highs” – those times when you felt really good and confident. You thought you were doing the right things and it was only a matter of time before things fell into place. But then things didn’t exactly work out as you planned. So, then came the “not so highs” – those times when everything felt hard. Your doubts surfaced continually trying to overshadow your faith that everything would work out.

Here’s the good news. It’s time for this “season of waiting” to be over. It’s time. It’s finally time.

You’ve gotten stronger. You’ve learned so much about yourself and what you’re truly capable of. Your faith has been stretched. Your belief in what is possible has expanded. You’ve made it through so much and every single thing that happened has led you to this point.

And, Now It’s Time.

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