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20 Things To “Let Go” So You Can Get What You Want & Deserve

Trustletgo“Trust. Let go. And make room for what’s coming.” Mandy Hale

Have you ever had the same lesson come up in your life over and over again? So much so that no matter how much you don’t like to admit it, you can’t help but see it. Well, for me, that lesson is “Let go”.

Last night, I literally said to myself “Just let go Sibyl. You know it’s time.”

The lesson to “let go” of things you know aren’t right for you can creep up in so many different areas of your life – work, friendships, relationships, bad habits, etc.

I always eventually see the light, but a lot of times I’m too slow “letting go”, even when I know something is not right for me.

It’s easy to stay stuck doing what you’ve been doing. A lot of times it’s the simplest and most straight forward path. We make excuses to not “let go”. We come up with rationales and convince ourselves our reasoning is sound … but deep down you know better. [Read more…]

One Powerful Quote To Remind Yourself Of Today


“About 90% of the things in your life are right. Make sure you don’t overlook the 90% that’s right because you’re focusing on the 10% that’s not.” – Dale Carnegie

Isn’t that a great quote? It’s actually one of my favorite quotes of all time. And, Today, if you’re like me, and also have a lot going on, this is a great quote to remember.

Take a quick minute and think about it…

Even if everything isn’t 100% perfect today, when you’re honest with yourself and you look at things from the right perspective, you can see that at least 90% of the things in your life are working and going right. That’s right, 90%.

And, 90% is a lot going right.

But, have you noticed how your mind will try to focus mostly on what’s wrong or the 10% that’s not working? It’s like all the bad stuff comes to mind quickly and sticks around, but it’s not as easy to remember and stay focused on all the good stuff that’s going well.

This was the exact problem I ran into earlier today. [Read more…]

5 Simple But Powerful Thoughts To Have Today


“You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be.” Marianne Williamson

I’ll admit it. I was a bit naive.

I used to think the day was going to come when that negative voice in my mind would be gone once and for all. You know the voice that’s notorious for focusing on all the wrong things.

It continually tries to get you to worry about one thing or another. I call it the Chief Negativity Officer and its always quick to respond anytime something goes wrong or you have any doubts.

It says all types of things …

” Things aren’t ever going to work out.”
” Don’t get your hopes up. Every time you do that you just end up being disappointed again.”
” You’re never going to get where you want to be.”
“What are you going to do when things don’t work out?” (and so many other negative thoughts)

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3 Simple Things You Can Do To Have A Great Thanksgiving

Everymoment.jpg“Every moment you get is a gift. Why waste it by dwelling on things that make you unhappy. Spend it doing the things you love and be with the people you enjoy.”

Have you always had great Thanksgiving days? I was thinking about some of my past Thanksgivings and I realized I didn’t always do Thanksgiving “the right way”. It’s not that I didn’t enjoy the day and feel grateful for all my family and friends.

But, there were so many years I wasn’t taking full advantage of enjoying and experiencing the day because I was distracted by many of the thoughts running through my mind.

Sometimes I would be thinking about why people did or said certain things …

“Why did she say that to me? Did I do something wrong?”

“Why does he always do that? It is so rude.”

Other times I would be thinking or worrying about things that had nothing to do with Thanksgiving day.

“What if things keep getting worse at work?”

“I don’t know if things are ever going to work out.”

Have you ever noticed all the thoughts that can recycle through your mind over and over again and take your attention away from enjoying and experiencing the moment in front of you? A lot of times you may not even realize how much your mind is wandering and how all your worrying, thinking, and mental complaining is affecting how you feel. That was the trap I was falling into and not even really realizing it.

But, I finally figured out there is a better way to move through the day … a much much better way.

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